Archive for March 2011

 
 

Redeeming Samson | April 3

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I grew up hearing the story of Samson at the same time “G.I. Joe” was showing on Saturday morning television. I remember seeing an episode about Samson and Delilah from Hanna Barbara’s The Greatest Adventure, in which Samson was presented as a righteous hero and Delilah as a conniving prostitute who used her feminine wiles to seduce Samson. In a time of Cowboys vs. Indians, G.I. Joes vs. Cobra, Ninja Turtles, and Thundercats, I aspired to be a superhero when I grew up (a small part of me still wants to hold onto that childish dream).

Samson’s hair was the secret to his strength, and an explicit sign of his commitment to God. But Samson had one weakness: he went weak in the knees at the sight of a beautiful woman, namely women outside of his tribe. It’s no secret that Samson had a preference for Philistine women, much like the way James Bond couldn’t resist a beautiful woman regardless if she was bent on killing him. In Chapter 14, we read that Samson could have had his choice of wife from any one of his kin or from his tribe. Instead, he catches sight of a Philistine woman and desires after her, later to marry her.

In Chapter 15, we read that after the fiery death of Samson’s wife, he goes on a rampage (“Hulk Smash!”). With his vengeance satiated, he goes looking for “comfort,” first from a prostitute then moving on to Delilah. I grew up being told that Delilah was a prostitute, but this detail is absent from the scriptures. I would venture to argue that such was said of Delilah to scare little boys from kissing little girls, let alone holding their hand- which would only serve as fodder for “abstinence only” education.

Delilah is pressured by her Philistine countrymen to find out how to weaken Samson (the difficulty of such a task would be comparable to finding the “back door” weak point on the Death Star). Samson lies to Delilah as to what is the secret of his strength three times. Why? This isn’t the kind of secret one would take lightly. For Samson, giving away this secret meant making himself completely vulnerable to his confidant.

Why didn’t he walk away from Delilah the first or second time she inquired about his “kryptonite”? Samson couldn’t take his eyes off of her. He lets his guard down around Delilah. He trusts her enough that eventually (scripture says that she “nagged” him), he tells her his secret. Conventional wisdom tells us that ‘love turns us into fools’ (ala Shakespeare’s A Midsummer Night’s Dream). With his head in her lap, at his most vulnerable- which is a big step considering how he prided himself on his strength- his sacred vow is broken as he is stripped of his power. His enemies overtake him in warlike fashion- carrying him off as a spoil of war to be displayed at their temple- for all the temple-goers to mock and laugh at him.

Why were Samson’s eyes gouged out? From a strategic standpoint, he can’t kill what he can’t see. From a moralistic standpoint, his eyes being gouged out could be seen as a purification process- he cannot desire after another beautiful Philistine woman if he cannot see her. His eyes have deceived him. Here at Samson’s lowest point, his focus returns back to his initial calling- as a judge for Israel.

As a peace-loving person desiring to uphold “just peace-making” (a viable alternative in the pro-war vs. pacifism debate) in all that I do, I struggle with the instances of retributive justice (vengeance) and redemptive violence. Samson sought retribution against the Philistines for killing his wife and sought to redeem himself with his last “Hoorah” at the temple of Dagon. Instead of dismissing this text, I choose to hold it up and wrestle with it, demanding from it a blessing.

As I read this text, I see that Samson was the strongest man in the Bible, and even he fell, along with Solomon- the wisest, and David- a man after God’s own heart. What hope do I have? I am not the strongest, the wisest, nor the most devout. My solace comes from the messy conclusion found in Judges 16- Samson, at his lowest and most humiliated, was afforded enough Divinely given strength to topple the temple of Dagon. He had some incredible flaws, and yet God used him as a judge. God met him in his “humanness,” and honored his final request. In a “kill or be killed,” tribe vs. tribe world, what were Samson’s options? Who was there to present him with the “peaceable” option?

As persons seeking to be “salt” and “light” in all that we do and are, we can take solace in the fact that God will meet us in our humanness as God met Samson in his humanness- we don’t have to seek to be perfect (perfection- what a shallowly defined term!), we just have to not give up- to keep on keeping on, to strive for holiness- “Do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God.” (Micah 6:8)

I leave you with this challenge: How does Samson’s story follow and fall short of the Micah 6:8 passage, and in his falling short of such an ideal, should that exclude him from being shown the same kind of mercy (in our reading of the story) that we strive to show to those who “trespass against us…” ? Samson had no one to give him justice for the atrocities committed against him. In extending mercy and forgiveness for those who “trespass against us,” we break the reality of violence that the Samson story (and the book of Judges) testifies to.

As you participate in this conversation, whether online, at a Neighbors Abbey gathering, or with your family and friends, just remember that everyone makes the discussion what it is.

-Joseph “Josey” Stone

Day 17: March 28

Day 17: 28 March 2011
28.03.2011

Easter eggs have been in the shops for weeks. Originally a pagan symbol of the rebirth of the Earth (Easter marking a northern Spring), early Christians adopted the egg as a symbol of the new life demonstrated in the resurrection of Jesus.

What plans do you have to buy Easter Eggs this year?

How will you use them?

Is there anything you can do to better connect your use of them with the Easter story?

The usual day for giving them is Easter Sunday. See if you can hold off eating any until then.

 

Place an Easter egg on your purple place.

choosing belonging over pride (pt2) | march 27

Last week was an extraordinary discussion about the way belonging and communication tale place within our church family.  The courage of so many to be honest and to listen to the other was out of this world!  And the new birth on the other side of honesty and confession has been a site to marvel.

This Sunday, March 27, we will relate that back to the text of Jephthah from the prior post, Judges 11-12.7.  We meet from 5-7 at the Dwell house, 817 Dill Ave SW 30310.

Third Sunday: March 27

Day 15: 25 march

LENTEN REFLECTIONS
2011

Day 15: 25 March 2011
25.03.2011

O! God of all beings, of all worlds, of all times,

we pray, that the little difference in our clothes,

in our inadequate languages,

in our ridiculous customs,

in our imperfect laws,

in our illogical opinions,

in our ranks and conditions which

are so disproportionately important to us

and so meaningless to you,

that these small variations

that distinguish us,

those atoms that we call humans,

one from another,

may not be signals of hatred and persecution. Amen.

Voltaire (18th Century)

Day 13: 23 March 2011

“All the Lord requires of us is that we take the near edge of some great issue and act at some cost to ourselves.”   Colin Morris

Day 12: 22 March 2011

Culture and Solidarity – Fania Simon

This is the International Week of Solidarity with Peoples Struggling Against Racism and Racial Discrimination.
Today talk to someone of a different ethnic background to you. Ask them to tell you about any times they feel they have been discriminated against because of their race. Perhaps this is your own experience?
How do you feel about what you hear?

 

(This should have been yesterdays reading. The days were accidentally swapped. My apologies)

 

Mark Pierson wrote this for a daily meditation for World Vision (c) 2011, to get the Flash designed posts daily, goto lentenreflections.org and subscribe.



Day 11: march 21

Day 11: 21 March 2011
21.03.2011

When have you treated someone differently in speaking, action or thought because of the colour of their skin or ethnic background? This can be as simple as an assumption you made about them.

If justice is ‘the right ordering of power’ what might justice have looked like for them in your interaction?

(Today is also World Day for Water.)

Day 11: 20 March 2011

Day 10: 19 March 2011

“Speak up for the people who have no voice,  for the rights of all the down-and-outers. Speak out for justice!   Stand up for the poor and destitute!”

The Message Bible, Proverbs 31: 8,

This is the advice King Lemuel’s mother gave him.
If it was given to you, what would you need to change about the way you live?


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The Abbey organized in the fall of 2008 on a neighborhood back porch with two commitments, exploring the way of Jesus for city folks, and seeking the growth of the community from within instead of from outside. Several of us had kids and we prayed that the girls we were raising and the girls walking the sidewalks as prostitutes would benefit together from our church's presence. Never one at the expense of the other.

We took on the language of the Abbey to communicate the historic tradition of orders of faith plopping down in the middle of a city and making "sanctuary"' for the wanderer and for the beautiful. We wanted our identity to be tied to this kind of posture and practice.

We took as our patron saint, the Good Samaritan, our Neighbor. He knew what is was like to be outside of religious groups. He was not the person the religious reader would have expected to act with God's desired compassion. And yet his "neighboring" became the exemplar in Jesus' tale told to the lawyer who wanted to be awarded life eternal for his doctrine or his behaviors.

Neighbors Abbey does not simply bring the dreams of God to SW Atlanta, we expect to learn them from neighbors who have already been participating in these ways. This is part of what it means for us to walk in Jesus' Way, its just what those early disciples and the lawyer and the neck-craning religious leaders would have run into walking along with Jesus.

Now we meet for meals, to help our neighbors, to pray, to discuss scripture, to design public performance art projects, to mentor youth, and many other things.

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